Tao Of The Gigolo by Vin Armani

Author:Vin Armani [Armani, Vin]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Vin Armani
Published: 2011-12-01T06:00:00+00:00

On Pursuing Relationships

All that is necessary for success is that you simply stop believing a myth that society is telling you. By the time we reach adulthood, we’ve heard the warm-and-fuzzy mantra of “believe in yourself” ad nauseum. Have you ever stopped to think of what you believe in if you don’t believe in yourself?

If believing in yourself is the key to success, then surely believing in that “other thing” is the key to failure. The choice to believe in oneself is the choice to cease believing in the mythology foisted on us by a society that has proven to only be good at failure. Heroes are always presented to us as individuals who make the decision to believe only in themselves and their sense of what is right and not to simply “go along” with the societal norms. Just going along with what you are told you should do (and believe) leads to a life, at best, of utter mediocrity and abject failure at worst.

Human collective thought is alive. It evolves over time. The thoughts of the heroes of the past are eventually adopted, standardized, and become the mythology of the present. The societal norms that we take for granted were radical new ideas hundreds or thousands of years ago. The radical ideas of today will be widely accepted truths of tomorrow. The idea itself is not intrinsically valuable. It is only of value relative to general sentiment and understanding of the world. In the marketplace of ideas, the value of an idea is subject to the rules of supply and demand. Radical new ideas are valuable because they exist in short supply (in the minds of only a few) and are in constant demand.

When I first encountered the group of men devoted to the dissemination of ideas related to seduction, the ideas presented were not only radical but were also, and continue to be, in high demand. I was obviously attracted to the idea that there was a way for me to “get any girl.” What man wouldn’t be?

As my thinking has evolved and I have become adept at the art of seduction, I have come to understand that aspiring to become proficient at “getting the girl” is just a tiny piece of the puzzle. In fact, the art of seduction is truly a path toward engaging a partner in a relationship that plays itself out as long and as deep as possible. Of course you must get the girl in order to begin a relationship with her, but getting her is a means, not an end. It is interesting to note the difference in attitude between those who call their community the “Pick Up Community” and those who call the same community the “Seduction Community.” The “pick up” is a tiny subset of the art of seduction. It would be like someone learning to dunk a basketball and yet never learning to shoot a jump shot, dribble, pass, or play defense. No matter how good your dunk may get, your overall skills as a basketball player will be greatly lacking.

Download

Copyright Disclaimer:
This site does not store any files on its server. We only index and link to content provided by other sites. Please contact the content providers to delete copyright contents if any and email us, we'll remove relevant links or contents immediately.